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 21:04 | 25/Apr/2008 | 6 Comment(s)
hum chahe rahe ya na rahe

har ilzaam vo hame de jate hai,


har khata ki saza vo bata jate hai,


hum har baar khamosh rehte hai,


kyuki vo har baar dost hone ka haq jata jaate hai





zindagi se pyar kar ;


hai raat to kya,


subha ka intezar kar.







keh nai pane ki majburi hai,


khamoshi ki bhi zuba ho,


kya zaruri hai





phir chupke se yaad aa gaya koi,


meri aakhon ko phir rulaa gaya koi,


kaise uska shukria aada karen,


mujh naacheez ko shayar bana gaya koi





ab kya pesh karun teri nazar,chand,


sukhe ashq ya khali madhushala ;


tere liye ji rahe they sanam!


tere hi intazat ne maar dala





kisi se nazar churakar to dekho,


kisike sapne sajakar to dekho,


vo mile na mile,


uski or muskurakar to dekho





zindgi mauhtaj nahi manzilo ki


waqt har manzil dikha deta hai


 kon marta hai kisi ke liye


waqt sab ko jeena sikha deta hai





duniya jise neend kehti hai,


jane wo kya cheez hai,


aankhe to hum bhi band karte hai......


par wo aap jaise dost se milne ki tarkeeb hai



kuch rishte uparwala banata hai,


kuch rishte log banate hai,


par kuch log bina kisi rishte ke hi rishte nibhate hai,


shayad wohi dost kehlate hai



 mat roko is bahete dard ko,


saza haiq  yeh kisi ke intezar ki,


keh lo inhe ashk ya diwangi,


 ye to nishani hai kisi ke pyar ki...



hum tere sath chalenge tu chale na chale


tera har dard sahenge tu kahe na kahe


hum chahte hai ki tum khush raho


hum chahe rahe ya na rahe





 

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 14:21 | 25/Feb/2008 | 8 Comment(s)
why?

hi friends,


today i want to write something which are not only proverb, but i have actually experienced in life


life is a riddle,  in life there are many questions and we try to find out d answers of that question but the real fact is that when we find the answer of one question, it happens that life changes its que.


in life we always wants what others have, we will never get satisfied whatever god has given to us and that is what the cause of distress for us.


in life, we love somebody who doesnt love us but in that process we loose the person who loves us and cares for us .


why it happens, v always try to get what v dont have  and not satisfied wid the things which v have.


i m sorry if i hurt somebody by saying this, but in the young age we love somebody but when he/she becomes our spouse, his/her value lowers down in our eyes.


y it happens that if v doesnt find our love, v feels like world is not like living and soak our selves in distress instead getting out from it  and diverting ourselves to something new. when we know that v r not going to get something then also y v dream about it and always try to get it. our love.


y we expect so many things from god rather than thanking god for whatever is given to  us  by god


 i know its a  human tendency., v always expect much fm god . i know sometimes it is good and sometimes it is injurious . v the human being itself makes law and itself breaks it.


y we sometimes not able  to find the way in distress and not able to decide what is good and what is bad or confuses about what path to choose.


y as a human being one cannot be able to handle his/her own life and try to get advice from somebody else  who does not at all know any of the surrounding circumstances of the life.


conclsion: bcoz human being is a strange animal.that  only i could say. still there must remain many questions unanswered


 

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 14:39 | 22/Feb/2008 | 2 Comment(s)
prayer

This prayer is most liked by me in my life,

HUMKO MANN KI SHAKTI DENA,

MANN VIJAY KAREIN

DUSRON KI JAY SE PAHELE

KHUD KI JAY KAREIN.....HUMKO

BHEDBHAV APNE DIL SE SAAF KAR SAKEIN

DUSRON SE BHUL HO TO MAAF KAR SAKEIN

JHOOTH SE BACHE RAHEIN SACHH KA DUM BHAREIN...DUSRON

MUSHKILEIN PADE TO HUM PE ITNA KARM KAR

SAATH DE TO DHARM KA

CHALENGE  DAHRM PAR

KHUD PE HOSLA RAHEIN

BADI SE NA DAREIN

DUSRO KI JAY SE PAHLE KHUD KO JAY KAREIN

HUMKO MANN KI SHAKTI DENA

This prayer always inspired me in my life and always showed me a right path whenever i m in distress. so i like to thnk god for helping me in all situation and showing me a right path which in the begining requires too much control  and is also difficult but the end is always good. so my sincere appeal to all my friends to always believe in god and follow the right path even if u find it difficult in the begining

regards,

NIRALI

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 08:21 | 28/Nov/2007 | 2 Comment(s)
ONE A DAY AND YOU HAVE WON A DAY

1.  When we find we are giving several different explanations of our conduct, we know that we are  concealing something from ourselves.

2.  you can react toward anything that happens to you in a way that retains your happiness- if you reallly want your happiness more than anything else.

3. when we open our hearts and our purses to others, they are sometimes refilled unexpectedly. The gifts of time and money we donate are returned to us in many ways.

3.  The happiest miser on earth is the man who saves up every friend he can make.

4.  Experience is not what happens to man.It is what a man does with what happens to him.

5.  Be pleasant until ten o'clock in the morning and the rest of the day will take care of itself.

6.  The way you manage your time, perhaps as much as anything else, determines your success or failure as a person.

7.  Those  who can move themselves beyond the state of complaining of the state of action are the ones who get what they want.

8.  To improve the golden moment of opportunity, and catch the good that is within our reach is the great art of life.

9.  Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.

10. The greatest luxury is not to be hurried.

11. The art of life lies in a constant re-adjustment to our surroundings.

12.Tidy up your thoughts, and your actions will tidy themselves.

13. Opportunity never knocks on the door. You have to knock on opportunities' doors, and they are all around you.

14. Opportunity is a bird that never perches.

15.  Enjoying life is one of the best ways to lenghten it.

16.  Peace of mind comes when we are sensible enough not to expect too much from life, ourselves  and other people.

17.  If we do not encourage our ambition, feed it and strengthen it by vigorous exercise, it will soon die.

18. We should make more use of our creative mechanism every night by giving the subconscious mind suggestions for it to work upon during sleep.

19. Before everything else, getting ready is the secret of success.

20. The art of enjoying every minute is to deal with only one minute at a time.

21.  Realise that the happy life is the organised life. If we are going to find any satisfaction we must learn to organise and plan.

22.  It's important that people know what you stand for. It's  equally important that they know what you won't stand for.

23.  People who never make mistakes are those who do nothing.

24. Keep a secret, it's your slave. Tell it, and it's your master.

25. Have the courage to make mistakes- and learn from them.

26. How you spend your time is more important than how you spend your money. Money mistakes can be corrected, but time is gone for ever.

27. Give your decisions, never your reasons . your decisions may be right ; your reasons are quite sure to be wrong.

28. Strangers are friends that you have yet to meet.

29. A man is what he thinks about all day long.

30.  For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness. 

 

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 08:12 | 28/Nov/2007 | 3 Comment(s)
think

Think......


Happy moments -  Praise God


Difficult moments - Seek God


Quiet moments   -  Worship God


Painful moments -  Trust God


Every moment  -   Thank God

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